7 Ways To Get Horny When You’re Not Really Feeling It

Candles, music, maybe even a toy? This is how we get in the mood.

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Let’s face it … sometimes, you’re just not in the mood. You could want to be, you could try to be, but half of the time, you’re just not into it. With a pandemic running rampant, bars closed, and dating becoming increasingly difficult, it’s hard to feel horny these days, tbh. Even with a partner at home, being sexual and being forced to be stuck inside isn’t exactly the sexiest thing in the world. We’ve rounded up seven different things that might make you feel a little hornier if you want to be. Keep reading for more!

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7 Ways To Get Horny When You’re Not Really Feeling It

1) Buy a sex toy: We love the Majesty from Vush. Your Majesty has 25 different vibration settings that will treat you like the queen you are. From start to finish, this luxury sex toy is waterproof, cordless, and unlike anything you’ve ever experienced before. Quiet, discreet, and built to please with ease, your Majesty is definitely here to make pleasure something you can achieve on your own terms. It’s also ergonomic and waterproof, so you can safely use it in the bath or shower, giving ‘self-care’ a whole new, sensuous meaning.

2) Use a Love Gel: Turn yourself on! Originally created for post-menopausal women, the Alfie Love Gel is a specialized formulation — not a lubricant — to help promote a heightened, more sensitive sexual experience and increase libido. It boosts blood flow to stimulate your senses, while natural aphrodisiacs Long-Jack and Fenugreek get you in the mood. Buy here.

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3) Light some candles: Candles are the perfect tool to set the mood and get yourself in the sexual mood. Turn down the lights, find a sexy scent like musk or palo santo, and be your horny self.

4) Turn off your phone: With so much going on in the world, it’s best to take a break every once in a while. We’re all saying for a few days, just for a few hours! You’ll feel much much better, we promise.

5) Turn on some music: Find a song that makes you sweat (in a good way)!

6) Sext with a partner (or someone new): Sometimes your mind is all you need for a little bit of turning on. Consensually text someone you’re fooling around with or a partner and see if they’re up for it. You never know!

7) Try a sensual massage: Touch is among the sexiest of all of the senses. Try a sensual massage with your partner to see if it’ll get you in the mood.

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